Dating Tip #1: Who Should Pay?

A guy-friend asked me how to handle paying for a date since a woman could get offended if he assumes that he pays because he is the guy. He said he can never determine if he should pay or if his date would get offended.  I have never heard a woman say she doesn't enjoy getting treated to a nice date once in awhile.  Chances are if it bothers her she will try to pick-up the bill, or suggest splitting the check anyway.   If she says she WANTS to split the bill she means it.  If she ASKS if you are splitting the bill, chances are she would like you to pick it up.

However, if you are really concerned my suggestion is simple...be honest.  When the check comes you might say something along the lines of, "I've really enjoyed your company tonight.  I'd really like to treat you this time around.  But, if that bothers you I'd be happy to split the bill."  If she is the type of woman who likes to pay for herself, she'll be impressed that you gave her a chance to express her wishes and that you aren't imposing gender roles on her.   Whatever she decides, go with it and drop the subject.  Don't make it into a big deal.